May be some of us may encounter with such question specially dealing with these two different topic but yet the same... to choose between love and friend..yah, weighing pro and cons and to choose so that you wont hurt either both parties in some situations..
Both are so much related to each other. And both are so
dissimilar! What are the differences between friendship and love? Is close friendship possible between persons of opposite sex?
What is friendship? Why do we call a person our
friend? When do we call someone a very good friend? If we care for a
person, if we are always ready to help that person and if we share most
of our thoughts with a person, they are our good friends... kan? kan? We can always
count upon our good friends in an emergency. We are always sure that our
friend will understand why we acted in a certain way. We need not
explain anything to our very good friends. The friendship is so deep and
the relationship is so intimate, that most of the things are
automatically understood by our friends.
What about love? In a
relationship of deep love, all the sharing that we discussed above are
taken for granted. But love transcends all this. During love, we are
attached with a particular person, while in friendship, one may have
many friends. A loving relationship makes one so much attached to the
other, that one gets pained if his/her beloved is hurt! Love also
involves a physical element. Friendship does not have that. This is a
vital difference. Nature gives us love so that the specie can go
forward. Nature does not give us friendship.
Your heart beats will
never increase in anticipation of meeting your friend.. if that so, surely la you're in love with your friends kan..??? :D You will not lie
awake at night thinking about your friend. You will not feel totally
lost, if you don't meet your friend for a few days. You will not have
dreams in your eyes thinking about your friend. But in love, you will do
all this and much more. Indeed, there is no comparison between love and
friendship..
For those who understands, there are no comparison to be specified on what is love and what is friendship...but as for me, we is currently do not attached to any person aka love one, decide that my friendships is a total love in so much ways..means in in love with my friendship till i was forgotten what it feel to have a separate meaning of love and friendships.
yah, say it! I'm pathetic living in this wonderful world with no one to call baby, babe or what-so-fucking-ever..! as long as i have family, friends and people who care about me, I'm alive!
fyi, the closest love life i ever had is with my imaginary-person that i called boo...!
yah, dont worry boo, I love you, so much..
